Do Your Best Confidently!

When I was in school, I was pleased with the activities of dancing. One time there was one incident that made me down. I ever thought to stop dancing, but I persuaded my teacher, and she told me this story. This story made me strong when I feel that my ability just so-so, nothing special. I remember this story well, because I really got a tremendous wisdom.

There was a young girl who really likes to dance. Dancing versatility is very prominent compared with her friends, so she is often become champions in various competitions are held. He thought, with what they have today, someday when she grow up she wants to become a world-class dancers. She imagines herself dancing in Russia, China, America, Japan, and watched by thousands of people who gave her a pat.
One day, in her city visited by an expert dance originating from overseas. This expert is very great, and she has a lot of opportunity to be a world-class dancers. This young girl wanted to dance and show skill in front of the ES, even if it may get the chance to become his disciple. Finally the opportunity came. The young girl managed to meet the experts behind the stage, after a performance of dance ...

The young girl asked "Sir, I am eager to become a world class dancer. Do you have a moment, to rate my dancing? I want to know what you think about my dance."
"Okay, dance in front of me for 10 minutes," replied the expert.
Not to mention the 10 minutes passed, the expert stood from his chair and left the young girl passed away, without uttering a word. What destroyed the young girl saw the attitude of the expert. This girl ran out. Come to home, she immediately burst into tears. She hate against herself. Apparently during this dance that she is not nothing in the face of the expert. Then she took her shoes, and she cast into the warehouse. Since then, she vowed never to dance again.
Several of years passed. The young girl has now become a mother with three children. Her husband had died. And to support his family, he worked to be the servant of a shop on the corner. One day, there was a dance show which was held in the city. The experts appear to be among the young dancing backstage. The experts seem old, with hair that was white. The young mother with three children also came to the dance performances. After the event, this mother of three children brought to the backstage area, looking for the expert, and introducing his three children to the expert. The experts still recognize this young mother and later they talked intimately.

The mother asked, "Sir, there is one question that sprag in my heart. It's about my appearance while dancing in front of you many years ago. How bad my appearance at the time, so you leave me to go straight away, without saying a word? "
"Oh yes, I remember the event. Frankly, I've never seen such a beautiful dance you do at that time. I think you will become a world class dancer. I do not understand why you came to stops from the world of dance", replied the expert.

The young mother was very surprised when hear the expert answers "It's not fair," cried the young mother. "Your attitude has stolen all my dreams. If I have a nice dance, why you left me when I just danced a few minutes. You ought to praise me, and not just ignored me. Should I become a world class dancer. Not only clerk! "

The expert replied quietly: "No. .... No, I think I've done it right. You do not have to drink a barrel of wine to prove the wine was delicious. It also happened to me. I do not have to watch you 10 minutes to prove your dance good. That night I also really tired after the show. So I leave you a moment, to take my card, and hope you will contact me again the next day. But you were gone when I came out. And one thing you have to bear in mind that you should focus on your dreams, not on words or my actions. Then praise? You expect praise? Ah, then you are growing. Praising it as a double-edged sword. Some support sometimes can also make you weak. And in fact I see that wonderful praise given during someone was growing up, that may make herself satisfied and stop its growth. Actually I more like ignoring you, so that it can grow even faster give a praise to you. Moreover, the praise should out of my desire itself. Not you deserve require praise from others. "
"You see, this is really just a small matter. I wish you at that time not ignoring what is happening and keep dancing, maybe today you have become a world-class dancers.

Guys, from this story I wanna share to you that when the life seems cannot give us an opportunity to be a success person, don’t give up..! We should do our best to make it happen. If we just wait and wait, I believe nothing will change in our life. Don’t wait until we get a good situation to do it, but do it to get a good situation. Hopefully this story can changes our mind 